Friday, February 14, 2014

I recently read a simple book on the life of Dietrich Bonhoeffer:  He asked a lot of hard questions of himself, his colleagues and his country:  "We often ask ourselves whether we still need the church, whether we still need God.  But this is the wrong question to be asking.  We are the ones who are being questioned.  The church exists, and God exists, and we are asked whether we are willing to be a part of the church and of service, for God needs us."

Am I asking the wrong questions?  How do I need to rethink and rephrase my questions to get to the heart?

I also appreciated this quote from the book:
"There is no way to peace along the way of safety...Peace is the opposite of security...Peace means giving oneself completely to God's commandment, wanting no security, but in faith and obedience laying the destiny of the nations in the hand of Almighty God.  Battles are won not with weapons but with God."
In the Midst of Wickedness (Then & Now) Janet Benge and Geoff Benge

Saturday, February 08, 2014

A technique to questions asking

I finished reading a novel last night - I liked it - it brought back all the good memories from when I worked in heart surgery and made me miss it.  Early in the book the main character is carrying a lot of secrets and slowly he reveals who he is to those around him…Early in the book he also thinks about questions.  How to ask question and really get to the information you are really looking for…how?  
"One thing I learned in school, somewhere in those long nights, was that if you ask enough of the right questions, the kind of questions that nibble at the issue but don't directly confront it, people will usually offer what you're looking for.  Knowing what to ask, when to ask it, and most important, how are the beginnings of a pretty good beside conversation."  When Crickets Cry by Charles Martin.

Wednesday, February 05, 2014

Yesterday (February 4th) was my Mom's birthday.  As I was thinking about all the nice things I could say about my Mom, because it was her birthday, it all seemed kind of forced.  But then I was on facebook (my daily addiction) and ran across this link.  It thought it was worthy of sharing and for the question of the day:
What legacy am I building?  What kind of legacy am I leaving behind?  Am I intentionally tending to "my field"? (Proverbs 24:30-34).

And yes the link, pearlsandgrace and here is a cut and paste from the post...

The following words are beautiful truths that I have seen shifting in the hearts of women who want to be known for following Jesus.

She will truly have His heart and His eyes to see sons and daughters when she looks at His people.

She will be a doer of the word and not a hearer only.

She will refuse to judge and condemn and do her best to love people back to wholeness.

She will be a fountain of mercy and grace and one who will breathe life back into dry bones.

She will know that it is the love of God that breaks every yoke.

She will be a living epistle of love and humility and will demonstrate the scriptures with kindness and gentleness and compassion.  

She will give credit where credit is due.
She will point others to Him. She will give Him all the glory. All of the honor. All of the credit.

She will understand fully- the truth that is this. If it were not for the grace of God- there go I.

She will reach to the back row and encourage and minister to the hearts of the women who can't get past the grief and sorrow of their own life. 

She will look past circumstances and situations and appearances that look different than her own to see daughters of the living God who have yet to discover their worth.

The new church lady is looking for opportunities to be a blessing- instead of looking for her own opportunities.

The new church lady knows that the only way up is down. She knows that "humility isn't thinking less of yourself but it is thinking of yourself less."

Graciousness is her hallmark. 

Gratitude is her beauty treatment.

She is a woman of her word.

She is a worshipper. In spirit and in truth.

She is a prayer warrior and holds trust from others as sacred

She is supportive of others and is not an opportunist.

She understands that to become the Proverbs 31 woman- you can't skip chapters 1-30.

She is fully aware of her own shortcomings and seeks Him daily for His love and guidance.

She recognizes hopelessness and worthlessness in others and speaks life.

She is an excellent listener. She listens with her head and her heart. She hears what is not being said.

She is a lifter. An encourager. A hope giver. 

She forgives- fully. 

She knows that the same grace that was made available to her- is also available to everyone else.

She does not gossip. She does not constantly brag or boast. She speaks blessing.

She sees the best. Believes the best. Hopes the best.

She places a high value on God's people.

She invests in the greatest investment in the world.

His people.

She is known for what she stands for.

But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy, good fruit, impartial and sincere.  ~ James 3:17

Me again - So thankful that I have been blessed with a Mom who is building a legacy of faith for the next generation...

Monday, February 03, 2014

How do you describe your personality?  Do you fit neatly in a personality type or category? What factors play into your personality?  Family, friends, culture, career choice.  Is personality inherited or learned?  Can a person change a personality flaw or are they stuck with what they were born with?  How much does education influence personality?

Why do I often feel so bad about being an introvert?  Why on the days I really need some time alone and in the Word do my neighbors constantly ring the doorbell and make be feel guilty and selfish for really needing some quiet? Is is learned or was I born with the need to be on time?  Why do I love learning about how science works and how things fit together but have no interest in technology.

Once I get started the questions just keep coming...

Sunday, February 02, 2014

In general we all ask a lot of questions.  Either trying to start a conversation or just trying to be nice.  Too often we ask and never listen to the answers, or we ask and a truthful answer is not given.  I get asked a lot of questions because I am very different from all my neighbors.  Some of the most frequent questions I am asked are:
What is your name? What does your name mean?
Why are you here? 
Why do you live alone?  
How old are you?  
How much did you pay for that?  
Why aren't you married? Do you want to get married?
How do you pray?

Saturday, February 01, 2014

For a couple years I made birthday lists, and then for a couple years I have not.  This year I am thinking I will make a list of 30something questions...
I have just decided that I am going on a quest to become a better question asker and information gatherer.   Neither of these come naturally to me, but practice makes a difference.  So for my first question in my list of questions.

1. How do I tell my neighbor that I do NOT like her fish rice? or How do you tell your neighbor that you do not like her fish rice?  Especially after she proudly tells you how she prepared the fish an authentic traditional way and made a plate just for you?

Answers are welcome...

A Week Away!

So thankful that exam week is over and I got to celebrate with a week visiting friends and at the beach! This was not the time away from class that I would have planned, but it has been good.
I love everything about the beach.  The week was wonderful and full of gifts, too many to list.  Here are a few of the many things I enjoyed this week - those that I remembered to take a picture of - some of the good things in life:
Dinner at Nando's with a friend, walking on the beach, Henna with another friend, and coming home to a note under my door and neighbors excited to see me.






Sunday, January 12, 2014

"Home"
I realized after my friend commented on my apartment pictures that I had never updated the pics since I got my stuff!  So this blog is inspired by Heather and her recent pics of her apartment.  I roomed with Heather for most of high school and after seeing her apartment I am wishing for some of her artistic style, which you can see here - Heather
So much I would say about each item in the following pictures...Enjoy.
 Bedroom

 Spare Room
 Living Room/ Bathroom and "Hall"
 More items from my bedroom
Kitchen!

Monday, December 30, 2013

After Reading "1,000 Gifts" I started a Grateful Journal. It has been picked up at random times throughout this last year and forgotten too often, but I was excited to pick it up today and realize I had 100 things listed from this year.  I tried to not repeat anything and make it specific to the day I was in, if you read through you will see several repeats...

Today I am Thankful for the gift of...
  1. New Year's Sleep Over!
  2. Day off from class
  3. Phone call from Dad and Mom
  4. Clothes drying on line on the roof
  5. Quiet days
  6. Songs
  7. Starting new every morning
  8. Coming home and having friends to chat with
  9. Warm Sunshine
  10. Goats on the road
  11. Sweet old lady on the debaab
  12. Trip to look forward to!
  13. Girl's Night - laughter
  14. Good night's sleep
  15. Sound of rain (even on the iPod)
  16. New carpet
  17. lots of colors
  18. Email from Bria
  19. New music
  20. Emails from friends
  21. warm weather
  22. Breeze waving curtains
  23. A clean room
  24. Every moment with family in Portugal!
  25. Cafe
  26. The Ocean
  27. Clean Clothes
  28. Knowledge that God hears my prayers
  29. Faith in God's Word and Promises
  30. Good trip out and about by myself
  31. Rain and Thunder
  32. Energy to Exercise
  33. A shared meal
  34. Phone call from Dad
  35. Pictures
  36. Words that Encourage
  37. Baskets and Bows
  38. Strawberries
  39. Visitors to host
  40. New recipes
  41. Friends to visit with
  42. Travel
  43. Bright Sunshine
  44. Good taxi to school this morning
  45. Crossing 60m by myself today!
  46. Apples and Bananas
  47. Carrots
  48. Electricity all morning
  49. Dr Pepper from Debbie
  50. Meals with friends
  51. Friends to spend time with just relaxing
  52. Peanut Butter and Banana Smoothie
  53. Open windows and fans
  54. Energy
  55. Text messages from Callie and Melissa
  56. Debaabs
  57. Emails from Dana and Kara
  58. Every memory from Italy and Cruise
  59. Calendars and Organization
  60. Books
  61. New places
  62. Ceiling Fans
  63. Welcoming new neighbors
  64. new teachers and classmates
  65. Henna
  66. Birthday parties
  67. What'sApp
  68. Exercise
  69. My own apartment
  70. Hot Water
  71. Story of Daniel
  72. Package from Autumn
  73. Invite for Thanksgiving
  74. Trip over Eid Week
  75. Dad's Phone call
  76. Rest
  77. Peace
  78. Calm
  79. New phone numbers in my phone
  80. Scripture prints for wall
  81. Skype chats
  82. Baking
  83. Craft project
  84. Naps
  85. Books to read
  86. Places to visit
  87. Hope
  88. Emotions
  89. Internet working in my apartment
  90. Christmas Lights
  91. Heidi's Graduation
  92. Open Windows
  93. Unplanned Parties
  94. Countdowns
  95. Socks
  96. Peppermint Candy Canes and Hot Chocolate
  97. No drips in the bathroom
  98. Door bell ringing
  99. Sunshine
  100. Staying comfy in bed that extra bit in the morning

Saturday, December 21, 2013

Celebrating Christmas
 Trips to the big city - enjoying hot coffee (and at home loving the hot chocolate and candy canes my mom sent in a package - those two are meant to be together - yumminess!)
Merry Christmas from me!
 
 Christmas in a box!  Love every little detail of this package of my favorite things from my Mom!
 My little tree - the before shot - NOW there are presents wrapped and ready to give to my neighbors on Christmas Day!  Also loving sharing my Advent stories with my neighbors as I place a new ornament on the stand each day.
So thankful this Christmas to be in a place where I have so much freedom to travel around and for new friends to celebrate with.  Here I am taking a world tour last night at Global Village - we lots track of the countries we "visited" but it was a fun day getaway for us!  And look - the weather was cool enough for us to pull out our sweaters and jackets!  Fun

Wednesday, December 11, 2013

Thanksgiving



There was sweet potato casserole and pumpkin pie and more that didn't make the picture!

Friday, November 08, 2013

Some pics from life here...
 My new sitting room furniture.
 Food from my neighbors
 Package from my sister
And my happy project for Advent!

Monday, November 04, 2013

Eid Meat
These pictures do not fully picture the amount of meat I saw in a 3 day period!
For each day the meat is prepared in a different way and it is quite the process.
The first morning of the Eid the men gather and slaughter the animal (this can be a goat, sheep, cow or camel).  The blood is completely drained out of the animal and then the meat is cut up.  Portions of the meat are for specific dishes and portions are prepared and given to the poor.
 Meat being prepared for the fire pit.  This is the first coating of spices, which will later be rinsed off and coated with the second coating (seen below) and wrapped in foil.  I was so excited to be invited to sit with the women and watch the entire process and then follow the meat to where the men had been working all day to prepare the fire pit.


 Men filling the woven baskets to be thrown into the fire pit.  They layer the meat in with specific leaves and palm branches.
 Then wrap the basket with more palm branches and twine before lowering into the pit.  This was a hard job but they all worked together grandfather, son and grandson.  It was an event.
 And three days later...this is the only picture I have of prepared meat!






Monday, October 14, 2013

A few things that make me happy...
The money here is so colorful and pretty
 Henna Hands (and a fun afternoon with new friends)
Can anyone find in the design an apple, arch, flame star, cross and flower?
 Gifts from new friends in my neighborhood! Cookies and Dates

Sunday, October 06, 2013

New Places, New Sights, New Things
 My new bedroom is coming together
 My new bathroom
 This room is going to be fabulous!  Now it only has a small table and sheet curtains, but I have ordered a M'gliss that I am so excited about!  Will post pictures once the room is complete.
 My favorite room of the apartment - the roof balcony!  It is huge and once set up will be perfect for having guests over to enjoy the view and cooler weather of fall/winter.
 My tiny kitchen.  It is going to take some creativity to cook in here, but it is all coming together (and I have a side room/hallway type area that will be the 2nd half of the kitchen, so all is good.)
I am just happy my kitchen is indoors.  Most people living in houses have a totally separate room from their house that is the kitchen.
 View from my bedroom window.  Cannot forget for long that the desert is just outside

Monday, September 30, 2013

Catching Up!
I don't even know when or where to start!
Me in my "old" house not long before I moved again.
I got to spend some time with Dad and Mom!

I spent a little bit of time in Greece...

And this is my favorite part of my new apartment - the balcony and view are amazing!
More pictures to come!

Saturday, March 23, 2013

Celebrating Easter

I have had the best day in a long time.  Mostly because I have something to look forward to and get ready for!  Celebrating Easter.  It looks a lot different here...but I am having a friend over to dye eggs and so today I baked colorful cookies and prepared my Resurrection Eggs.  I have already told her the Story and explained how we use the eggs with objects inside to help up Remember and teach our children the importance of Celebrating Easter.

Also rainy season has begun.  For the last few days every afternoon has brought a shower of rain.  Don't think you can tell but the picture on the left is of my street during my first rain here!
And in the center of the pictures is my new favorite find from Pinterest!
I have printed it and put it on my wall, I have also saved it as my desktop background.
So much to Celebrate!
 
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